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Originally Posted by drewpy
This to me is a complex and important topic. Thank you, UPTOWN for sharing your insights, I couldn't have penned better. I am married 20 yrs and have loads of experience with this topic. Too much in fact.
It is not so easy as to say as Averett does - just communicate. That's crucial but not always possible. Commitment in a relationship has many faces - some not obvious. For example, who's more committed to a sexy healthy relationship - the SO who "checks out" as in UPTOWN's litany yet never cheats - or the SO who looks for ways to fill the void (even if not formally cheating).
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Thank you drewpy for bringing up your insight to this disucssion . . . this is happening all around us and is what the show Desperate housewivies is based on . . . with a large percentage of American marriages being SEXLESS . . . it's no wonder intimacy is one of the top things married couple fight about . . .
thanks again for your insight . . please continue to add it to this discussion and share your personal comments . . .
sweetpea