The best way to learn it is to live it. Just look at how you feel about yout SO... could you even compare it to what you'd ever feel for even the best of your toy? I mean, if it's really your SO and not a mere bed-buddy, the layers of emotions and feeling will be heaps more complex for him/her.. does it even need describing?
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Originally Posted by Carn
At the very least, you could call your spouse, tell them you've found another person, break up, and then go do your lowlife deed. I hold very little respect for people who have cheated.
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Sooo true. I actually used pretty much the same exageration everytime I discuss the subject of cheating. If you want the "benefits" of a better relationship, or of the freedom of celibacy, then be honorable and take the bad sides of it as well.. get rid of your previous engagements. Do it like an ass if you must, but do it nonetheless, it'll still be better than playing in people's back, especially of people who care, trust, and probably still love you.. that's a darn low.