The first date will be fine, sounds like you have a good idea. The key is what you do AFTER the date. I never called the day after - alway wait two days or more. Don't ask for a second date while on the first date. And NEVER send flowers the next day - you might as well send her a card that says "I never want to see you again."
The trick seems to be to remain SLIGHTLY aloof. That way, you don't seem like a sure thing, which equals "boring" in the mind of the modern woman.
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