As a black man, I have to step back when I read this question. Personally, in my past, I have had white girls go after me and now that I think about it I believe it was mostly because it was "hip" or "popular" for a white girl to date someone who was black. Was it because that she was rebelling against their parents, or were they just trying to fit in? Who knows. This was back in my high school days, just over 10 years ago. Now, I'd like to think that nobody just gives a fuck anymore. You date who you want to date. You marry whoever you want to marry. Personally I don't give a shit. I'm married to a half white, half Eskimo chick. And today, in fucking 2005 we STILL get ignorant looks from dumb ass people. Maybe some of you know what I'm talking about. The "what are you doing with them? You should stay within your own race" look. Fuck that. There's nothing "special" about us black folks that would make you to stay with black men/women. Some of us are fucked up too believe it or not. I say it's just personal taste. If you like dark skin and all the attributes that go along with it, then brother/sister, have at it. You'll get no ill will from me.
I also just realized that maybe I'm reading into this question too deep. Oh well, we’re all human, we all bleed red, make love not war no matter what the color, it's all good.
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