Once you go black do you go back? - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

robertjtucker · 01-14-2005, 07:46 AM

I am white guy. I have had sex with most of the general races, black, hispanic, white, asain. But when I went out with this black girl for a couple years, we broke up and I looked at all women, but I went after another black woman. I have been through this 4 times now. So is it true once you go black you don't go back?

Captain Nemo · 01-14-2005, 09:15 AM

Yep, I prefer Guinness over Harp

http://www.beeradvocate.com/news/stories_read/291/

Rinndalir · 01-14-2005, 09:34 AM

I had a black gf for years, nearly married her but she turned psycho on me. She definitely had the finest body out of all the girls I dated, she was a 38D with a perfect Sir MixALot ass. My wife is much better in bed than she was though. The biggest thing I miss about her - physically speaking anyway, I don't miss her at all because she changed from a sweet girl to a crazy pill abusing bitch - is her lips. They were so full and lucious, kissing her was awesome and they felt great wrapped around my cock. The wife has very thin lips but is actually much better at giving head. I just miss those lips every so often.

If I got the chance to have sex with another black chick I'd jump at it, assuming it was OK with the wife of course.

degrawj · 01-14-2005, 09:49 AM

unfortunately, i have not had the chance to be with a black woman. i really want to, and i kind of feel like i'm missing out. but here in Oregon, there aren't a lot of african americans. i wish it wasn't that way, because in my first year of college i was in Rochester, NY, and i saw more black people there in one day than i had seen my whole life in Oregon, and i became friends with many of them. i think that this is just something i am destined to live without though.

MSD · 01-14-2005, 10:36 AM

You do know that the phrase is a reference to racial stereotypes in relation to penis size, not the girls men go after, right?

robertjtucker · 01-14-2005, 10:50 AM

Yes it is realized we are speaking in general terms

cowgirl02 · 01-14-2005, 12:03 PM

I dated a black guy a while back. I did not have a very good experience. Yah he was nice but i think that i didnt like it because i was not into him as i thought i would be when i first met him. That does NOT in any way mean that i would not try again, just the one that i was with was not really my type.

longbough · 01-14-2005, 12:10 PM

I don't know if you're referring to male or female stereotypes. Please clarify.

1.) If you're referring to black men I presume you are referring to penis size - which is not a universal truism. I take issue with racial stereotypes on penis size because I happen to be an Asian male living under the myth of Asian penis size. To be blunt I have a thick 8" member and it still surprises me how many women I dated were surprised to find I wasn't "small." I realize it isn't the largest cock in the world but it's certainly not small.

2.) I've dated women of different ethnicities - east asian, indian, caucasian and black. I'd have to say that, sexually, each woman I've dated was different regardless of ethnicity. The only thing I could say was that the black women didn't have very sensitive nipples - but that could just be a coincidence.

robertjtucker · 01-14-2005, 12:20 PM

This is for women and men, it is basically about the reference to the phrase in general. And what other people think about it in general and through experience.

Bacchanal · 01-14-2005, 01:10 PM

I know I've heard more black guys say it than black chicks, but does that automatically mean it only goes for one and not the other? I never saw it that way.

Anyway, I'm a white guy and I've dated a black girl, but she didn't get me hooked. She was wonderful in bed, loved giving head, was open to anything, but just a little to clingy for my tastes. That coupled with the fact that she never wanted to do anything other than sit at home and watch movies pretty much bored me to death.

MiSo · 01-14-2005, 02:25 PM

i've been with two blacks girls and both were horrible.
they turned me off black girls forever.
now, i just stick to asian girls.

Willravel · 01-14-2005, 03:05 PM

I have been with (I think) around 6 or 7 black girls in my life. I married a half white/half puertorican. Did I come back? I dunno. I've never really considered any particular race to be better or worse, as it is to me more of a case by case basis.
There are, however, traits that some races tend to have slightly more than others.

FL8ME · 01-17-2005, 09:35 PM

I dated two black women when I was in college. I had a good time with them (as good a time as I've had with any non-psychotic relationship), but ultimately the relationships didn't work out, either through their own hang-ups on a mixed relationship (we were living in New Orleans, anybody from there will understand) or through their parents hang-ups (they hated me). I'll never do it again just because of outside pressure. Sure it's stupid to potentially eliminate the perfect mate from contention because of what other people think, but it frankly causes too much stress for me when a relationship has to come to an end through no fault of either party simply because life is hell around you when you're together in public or with family. In answer to your question, I went back because it can be a bitch to handle mixed dating emotionally if people around you want to make it that way.

Cimarron29414 · 01-18-2005, 11:17 AM

I dated a few black girls in high school and college, although we never had intercourse. It just worked out that way, not for any reason. Anyway, I look at skin pigmentation the same way I look at eye color, height, etc. I like what I like. The hottest girl I dated in HS or college was black - I was so young and so out of my league, I screwed that up royally.

docbungle · 01-18-2005, 12:20 PM

I tend to not put very much importance on one's ethnicity. My last girlfriend was black, and it was great. My current girlfriend is white, and so far she's great. I've dated several black girls and all but one has been a kick-ass experience. But, other than them being black, there has been nothing that would strike me as all that much different between them and the other girls I've dated. I give pretty much all girls the big two thumbs up, unless they turn out to be psychotic.

World's King · 01-18-2005, 12:21 PM

My Mother hasn't gone back.

My Father is the only white guy she's ever been with. I don't know... don't ask.

drakers · 01-18-2005, 03:21 PM

Wouldn't know. But I wen mexican and haven't gone back (were married now)!

Coppertop · 01-18-2005, 03:30 PM

This honkey has yet to taste the brown sugar. Unless we're speaking of latinas, that is.

fallenangel · 01-18-2005, 05:26 PM

The only guys i've been with so far are white, purely coincidence... if i happened to dig a guy that was black, east indian, asian whatever, then i'd go for it... As long as i'm attracted to them mentally and physically

El Kaz · 01-18-2005, 07:25 PM

I know a (white) girl who's chronicaly attracted to ANY non-white male. Black, hispanic, asiatic, you name it, it attracts her.. never had even a crush on ONE white guy since I've known her.
I wonder if a deep analysis of her psyche would reveal why she's like that

Maybe a love of exotism? Most guys she's been with also not only descend from foreign countries, but were born in em and immigrated recently, so they have the foreign names, the thick accents, the whole thing.. nothing amazing the first time, but when you see ALL the boyfriends she had were like that, it makes you wonder.

Personnaly, I've never dated girls that weren't white, mainly because where I live has a very poor racial diversity (Which makes me wonder how the girl mentioned above does it.. she has quite some connections), but overall, I put little mind to it. If it happens with a black girl, then so be it, if it doesn't, I won't go out of my way to "try" one.

martinguerre · 01-18-2005, 08:03 PM

dated/crushed on/whatever with asian, black, and white women. there's no real pattern that i can tell of. i like people who look differently than i do...so someone of another ethnicity probably has more points in the initial attraction score. but it has jackshit to do with any longer term calculation.

Hardknock · 01-18-2005, 08:59 PM

As a black man, I have to step back when I read this question. Personally, in my past, I have had white girls go after me and now that I think about it I believe it was mostly because it was "hip" or "popular" for a white girl to date someone who was black. Was it because that she was rebelling against their parents, or were they just trying to fit in? Who knows. This was back in my high school days, just over 10 years ago. Now, I'd like to think that nobody just gives a fuck anymore. You date who you want to date. You marry whoever you want to marry. Personally I don't give a shit. I'm married to a half white, half Eskimo chick. And today, in fucking 2005 we STILL get ignorant looks from dumb ass people. Maybe some of you know what I'm talking about. The "what are you doing with them? You should stay within your own race" look. Fuck that. There's nothing "special" about us black folks that would make you to stay with black men/women. Some of us are fucked up too believe it or not. I say it's just personal taste. If you like dark skin and all the attributes that go along with it, then brother/sister, have at it. You'll get no ill will from me.

I also just realized that maybe I'm reading into this question too deep. Oh well, we’re all human, we all bleed red, make love not war no matter what the color, it's all good.

Carno · 01-18-2005, 09:20 PM

I don't understand this... Why would the color of one's skin have anything to do with anything when it comes to dating? Sure you may or may not be attracted to certain races, but there is nothing "special" about any race that makes them better or worse. It's all personal preference, and if you happened to have good experiences with someone of a different race, that's merely based on your personal tastes.

Why anyone would think that one race is better than another is beyond me. It's all subjective. This thread is equivalent to asking, "Once you go red-headed do you go back?" There is nothing inherently better about red heads, it's all what you're attracted to.

Cimarron29414 · 01-19-2005, 10:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hardknock

I'm married to a half white, half Eskimo chick.

I hear those half white/half Eskimo chicks are WILD in bed!

/I keed, I keed!
//Just trying to show how stupid pigmentation stereotypes are.

K-Wise · 01-19-2005, 02:13 PM

I had a girl like Rind for my first girlfriend. Fantastic body, big lips, etc...I miss how sexual and kinky she was but thats not a trait exclusive to just one race. In truth I prefer Latina girls above all others but don't really care who I go out with as long as they're cool.

Asta!!

Zephyr66 · 01-19-2005, 02:23 PM

I live in a mostly white community, so i have never dated a black girl

lunchbox · 01-19-2005, 02:49 PM

I've never dated a black girl either, but I'm only 19 and I've lived in a 30,000 person city with a .5% black population and now I go to a school with <2% black population. I feel cheated because I haven't been exposed to much racial/cultural diversity in my life.

toxic515 · 01-20-2005, 07:22 AM

The question sort of generally baffles me, frankly... I've dated pretty much every race except Arabic descendants, and they were simply women, lovers, girlfriends, whatever. I tend to think that someone who's stuck on dating outside their own race has some issues, and I think someone that's not open to dating other races has issues as well. I married a latina, I am white, and I never even considered it an "interracial" relationship. It has always been simply a relationship. Is the sex different? Well, the sex is always a bit different from person to person, but near as I can tell it's had nothing to do with a skin color.. Sex is certainly different depending on the partner's attitudes and all, but that's IT. When the lights are out they all feel more or less the same, and when you genuinely love the person you are with, then very few things make any difference when it comes to appearance.

Hardknock · 01-20-2005, 01:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cimarron29414

I hear those half white/half Eskimo chicks are WILD in bed!

She is now! Took about 7 years for her to loosen up but after that, wow!

actinic · 01-21-2005, 08:01 AM

I can relate with longbough on #1. Growing up in suburban Maritimes it was quite a task just dating with those stereotypical ideology of racial endowments. I remember those high school rumors floating around as I usually showered last after PhysEd class and that only added fuel to the fire.

When I went to university (same city) I got trashed at a frat party. In my in and out of state conciousness I remember the girls and guys were curious of "what I was carrying". I remember the expression of that girls' face when she took a peek under the hood...LMAO...to relive that experience again.

Honestly, I was a virgin until after 1st year uni when I went to Europe for the summer. I stayed with a family friend in Roubaille (sp?) France and met a lovely Italian woman and she opened me up to the wonderful world of romance, desire and lust of the flesh.

Since then I have been with many women of different nationalities. All are different but none better than the other. My finacee is a mix of Italian, Irish, French and Scottish. She's everything to me and everything that I ever dreamed of and more...so I fart in the general direction to those that dismissed this ride...LMFAO.

All kidding aside, if it wasn't for those experiences, I wouldn't be the person that I am today, nor would have she ever have chosen me.

Thanks for reading

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View Poll Results: In general for men or women, Once you go black do you go back?
Had some chocolate and just got to keep getting it!	7	8.05%
Had it but not addicted.	16	18.39%
Had it not a good experience.	11	12.64%
Never had any...I think I am missing out.	53	60.92%
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01-14-2005, 07:46 AM	#1 (permalink)
robertjtucker Upright Location: Durham, NC	Once you go black do you go back? I am white guy. I have had sex with most of the general races, black, hispanic, white, asain. But when I went out with this black girl for a couple years, we broke up and I looked at all women, but I went after another black woman. I have been through this 4 times now. So is it true once you go black you don't go back?

01-14-2005, 12:10 PM	#8 (permalink)
longbough Soylent Green is people. Location: Northern California	I don't know if you're referring to male or female stereotypes. Please clarify. 1.) If you're referring to black men I presume you are referring to penis size - which is not a universal truism. I take issue with racial stereotypes on penis size because I happen to be an Asian male living under the myth of Asian penis size. To be blunt I have a thick 8" member and it still surprises me how many women I dated were surprised to find I wasn't "small." I realize it isn't the largest cock in the world but it's certainly not small. 2.) I've dated women of different ethnicities - east asian, indian, caucasian and black. I'd have to say that, sexually, each woman I've dated was different regardless of ethnicity. The only thing I could say was that the black women didn't have very sensitive nipples - but that could just be a coincidence. Last edited by longbough; 01-14-2005 at 12:21 PM..

01-18-2005, 12:20 PM	#15 (permalink)
docbungle It's all downhill from here Location: Denver	I tend to not put very much importance on one's ethnicity. My last girlfriend was black, and it was great. My current girlfriend is white, and so far she's great. I've dated several black girls and all but one has been a kick-ass experience. But, other than them being black, there has been nothing that would strike me as all that much different between them and the other girls I've dated. I give pretty much all girls the big two thumbs up, unless they turn out to be psychotic. __________________ Bad Luck City

01-18-2005, 12:21 PM	#16 (permalink)
World's King Here Location: Denver City Denver	My Mother hasn't gone back. My Father is the only white guy she's ever been with. I don't know... don't ask. __________________ heavy is the head that wears the crown

01-14-2005, 09:15 AM	#2 (permalink)
Captain Nemo Insane Location: In a forest of red tape (but hey, I have scissors)	Yep, I prefer Guinness over Harp http://www.beeradvocate.com/news/stories_read/291/

01-14-2005, 09:34 AM	#3 (permalink)
Rinndalir Insane	I had a black gf for years, nearly married her but she turned psycho on me. She definitely had the finest body out of all the girls I dated, she was a 38D with a perfect Sir MixALot ass. My wife is much better in bed than she was though. The biggest thing I miss about her - physically speaking anyway, I don't miss her at all because she changed from a sweet girl to a crazy pill abusing bitch - is her lips. They were so full and lucious, kissing her was awesome and they felt great wrapped around my cock. The wife has very thin lips but is actually much better at giving head. I just miss those lips every so often. If I got the chance to have sex with another black chick I'd jump at it, assuming it was OK with the wife of course.

01-14-2005, 09:49 AM	#4 (permalink)
degrawj I'm still waiting... Location: West Linn, OR	unfortunately, i have not had the chance to be with a black woman. i really want to, and i kind of feel like i'm missing out. but here in Oregon, there aren't a lot of african americans. i wish it wasn't that way, because in my first year of college i was in Rochester, NY, and i saw more black people there in one day than i had seen my whole life in Oregon, and i became friends with many of them. i think that this is just something i am destined to live without though.

01-14-2005, 10:36 AM	#5 (permalink)
MSD The sky calls to us ... Super Moderator Location: CT	You do know that the phrase is a reference to racial stereotypes in relation to penis size, not the girls men go after, right?

01-14-2005, 10:50 AM	#6 (permalink)
robertjtucker Upright Location: Durham, NC	Yes it is realized we are speaking in general terms

01-14-2005, 12:03 PM	#7 (permalink)
cowgirl02 Tilted Location: Dallas, Texas	I dated a black guy a while back. I did not have a very good experience. Yah he was nice but i think that i didnt like it because i was not into him as i thought i would be when i first met him. That does NOT in any way mean that i would not try again, just the one that i was with was not really my type.

01-14-2005, 12:20 PM	#9 (permalink)
robertjtucker Upright Location: Durham, NC	This is for women and men, it is basically about the reference to the phrase in general. And what other people think about it in general and through experience.

01-14-2005, 01:10 PM	#10 (permalink)
Bacchanal Laid back Location: Jayhawkland	I know I've heard more black guys say it than black chicks, but does that automatically mean it only goes for one and not the other? I never saw it that way. Anyway, I'm a white guy and I've dated a black girl, but she didn't get me hooked. She was wonderful in bed, loved giving head, was open to anything, but just a little to clingy for my tastes. That coupled with the fact that she never wanted to do anything other than sit at home and watch movies pretty much bored me to death.

01-14-2005, 02:25 PM	#11 (permalink)
MiSo Psycho	i've been with two blacks girls and both were horrible. they turned me off black girls forever. now, i just stick to asian girls.

01-14-2005, 03:05 PM	#12 (permalink)
Willravel ... a sort of licensed troubleshooter.	I have been with (I think) around 6 or 7 black girls in my life. I married a half white/half puertorican. Did I come back? I dunno. I've never really considered any particular race to be better or worse, as it is to me more of a case by case basis. There are, however, traits that some races tend to have slightly more than others.

01-17-2005, 09:35 PM	#13 (permalink)
FL8ME Upright Location: Japan	I dated two black women when I was in college. I had a good time with them (as good a time as I've had with any non-psychotic relationship), but ultimately the relationships didn't work out, either through their own hang-ups on a mixed relationship (we were living in New Orleans, anybody from there will understand) or through their parents hang-ups (they hated me). I'll never do it again just because of outside pressure. Sure it's stupid to potentially eliminate the perfect mate from contention because of what other people think, but it frankly causes too much stress for me when a relationship has to come to an end through no fault of either party simply because life is hell around you when you're together in public or with family. In answer to your question, I went back because it can be a bitch to handle mixed dating emotionally if people around you want to make it that way.

01-18-2005, 11:17 AM	#14 (permalink)
Cimarron29414 Still Free Location: comfortably perched at the top of the bell curve!	I dated a few black girls in high school and college, although we never had intercourse. It just worked out that way, not for any reason. Anyway, I look at skin pigmentation the same way I look at eye color, height, etc. I like what I like. The hottest girl I dated in HS or college was black - I was so young and so out of my league, I screwed that up royally.

01-18-2005, 03:21 PM	#17 (permalink)
drakers Psycho Location: IOWA	Wouldn't know. But I wen mexican and haven't gone back (were married now)! Last edited by drakers; 01-22-2005 at 10:11 PM..

01-18-2005, 03:30 PM	#18 (permalink)
Coppertop Getting Medieval on your ass Location: 13th century Europe	This honkey has yet to taste the brown sugar. Unless we're speaking of latinas, that is.

01-18-2005, 05:26 PM	#19 (permalink)
fallenangel soaring Location: near the water	The only guys i've been with so far are white, purely coincidence... if i happened to dig a guy that was black, east indian, asian whatever, then i'd go for it... As long as i'm attracted to them mentally and physically __________________ all I wanna do is - give the best of me to you

01-18-2005, 07:25 PM	#20 (permalink)
El Kaz Crazy Location: Canada	I know a (white) girl who's chronicaly attracted to ANY non-white male. Black, hispanic, asiatic, you name it, it attracts her.. never had even a crush on ONE white guy since I've known her. I wonder if a deep analysis of her psyche would reveal why she's like that Maybe a love of exotism? Most guys she's been with also not only descend from foreign countries, but were born in em and immigrated recently, so they have the foreign names, the thick accents, the whole thing.. nothing amazing the first time, but when you see ALL the boyfriends she had were like that, it makes you wonder. Personnaly, I've never dated girls that weren't white, mainly because where I live has a very poor racial diversity (Which makes me wonder how the girl mentioned above does it.. she has quite some connections), but overall, I put little mind to it. If it happens with a black girl, then so be it, if it doesn't, I won't go out of my way to "try" one. __________________ "Write a wise saying and your name will live forever." -Unknown

01-18-2005, 08:03 PM	#21 (permalink)
martinguerre whosoever Location: New England	dated/crushed on/whatever with asian, black, and white women. there's no real pattern that i can tell of. i like people who look differently than i do...so someone of another ethnicity probably has more points in the initial attraction score. but it has jackshit to do with any longer term calculation. __________________ For God so loved creation, that God sent God's only Son that whosoever believed should not perish, but have everlasting life. -John 3:16

01-18-2005, 08:59 PM	#22 (permalink)
Hardknock Republican slayer Location: WA	As a black man, I have to step back when I read this question. Personally, in my past, I have had white girls go after me and now that I think about it I believe it was mostly because it was "hip" or "popular" for a white girl to date someone who was black. Was it because that she was rebelling against their parents, or were they just trying to fit in? Who knows. This was back in my high school days, just over 10 years ago. Now, I'd like to think that nobody just gives a fuck anymore. You date who you want to date. You marry whoever you want to marry. Personally I don't give a shit. I'm married to a half white, half Eskimo chick. And today, in fucking 2005 we STILL get ignorant looks from dumb ass people. Maybe some of you know what I'm talking about. The "what are you doing with them? You should stay within your own race" look. Fuck that. There's nothing "special" about us black folks that would make you to stay with black men/women. Some of us are fucked up too believe it or not. I say it's just personal taste. If you like dark skin and all the attributes that go along with it, then brother/sister, have at it. You'll get no ill will from me. I also just realized that maybe I'm reading into this question too deep. Oh well, we’re all human, we all bleed red, make love not war no matter what the color, it's all good.

01-18-2005, 09:20 PM	#23 (permalink)
Carno Junkie	I don't understand this... Why would the color of one's skin have anything to do with anything when it comes to dating? Sure you may or may not be attracted to certain races, but there is nothing "special" about any race that makes them better or worse. It's all personal preference, and if you happened to have good experiences with someone of a different race, that's merely based on your personal tastes. Why anyone would think that one race is better than another is beyond me. It's all subjective. This thread is equivalent to asking, "Once you go red-headed do you go back?" There is nothing inherently better about red heads, it's all what you're attracted to.

01-19-2005, 02:13 PM	#25 (permalink)
K-Wise It's All About The Ass!! Location: In a pool of mayonnaise!!	I had a girl like Rind for my first girlfriend. Fantastic body, big lips, etc...I miss how sexual and kinky she was but thats not a trait exclusive to just one race. In truth I prefer Latina girls above all others but don't really care who I go out with as long as they're cool. Asta!! __________________ "I love music and it's my parents fault (closing statement)." - Me..quoting myself...from when I said that...On TFP..thats here...Tilted Forum Project *It ain't goodbye, it's see ya later! I'll miss you guys!* - Asta!!

01-19-2005, 02:23 PM	#26 (permalink)
Zephyr66 My custom title's the shit! Location: Canada	I live in a mostly white community, so i have never dated a black girl

01-19-2005, 02:49 PM	#27 (permalink)
lunchbox Thank God hockey is back Location: Deeeeeetroit	I've never dated a black girl either, but I'm only 19 and I've lived in a 30,000 person city with a .5% black population and now I go to a school with <2% black population. I feel cheated because I haven't been exposed to much racial/cultural diversity in my life. __________________ A common mistake that people make when trying to design something completely foolproof is to underestimate the ingenuity of complete fools. -Douglas Adams

01-20-2005, 07:22 AM	#28 (permalink)
toxic515 Addict Location: Texas	The question sort of generally baffles me, frankly... I've dated pretty much every race except Arabic descendants, and they were simply women, lovers, girlfriends, whatever. I tend to think that someone who's stuck on dating outside their own race has some issues, and I think someone that's not open to dating other races has issues as well. I married a latina, I am white, and I never even considered it an "interracial" relationship. It has always been simply a relationship. Is the sex different? Well, the sex is always a bit different from person to person, but near as I can tell it's had nothing to do with a skin color.. Sex is certainly different depending on the partner's attitudes and all, but that's IT. When the lights are out they all feel more or less the same, and when you genuinely love the person you are with, then very few things make any difference when it comes to appearance. __________________ Time flies like an arrow, fruit flies like a banana.

01-21-2005, 08:01 AM	#30 (permalink)
actinic Crazy Location: Toronto, ON	I can relate with longbough on #1. Growing up in suburban Maritimes it was quite a task just dating with those stereotypical ideology of racial endowments. I remember those high school rumors floating around as I usually showered last after PhysEd class and that only added fuel to the fire. When I went to university (same city) I got trashed at a frat party. In my in and out of state conciousness I remember the girls and guys were curious of "what I was carrying". I remember the expression of that girls' face when she took a peek under the hood...LMAO...to relive that experience again. Honestly, I was a virgin until after 1st year uni when I went to Europe for the summer. I stayed with a family friend in Roubaille (sp?) France and met a lovely Italian woman and she opened me up to the wonderful world of romance, desire and lust of the flesh. Since then I have been with many women of different nationalities. All are different but none better than the other. My finacee is a mix of Italian, Irish, French and Scottish. She's everything to me and everything that I ever dreamed of and more...so I fart in the general direction to those that dismissed this ride...LMFAO. All kidding aside, if it wasn't for those experiences, I wouldn't be the person that I am today, nor would have she ever have chosen me. Thanks for reading .