more details. Is the girlfriend just coming in, or are they having sex? I had a roommate that would start having sex with his girlfriend-of-the-month while i was writing papers. We had a discussion which informed him what would happen to him if the behavior continued, and he stopped.
If they're just coming in to talk, there's nothing wrong with that - to a point -. It's your room too and you two need to compromise on the dorm rules. Your RA should be able to help you sit down and figure out what the ground rules are. You can't expect him to sit alone all the time and he can't expect you to never be alone.
If, on the other hand, they're having sex or even just making out, that's unacceptable and you have every right to insist that it stop.
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