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you gotta tell him. does he ask if you climaxed? if he does, just tell him no. it felt really good, but you didn't climax and could he *whatever you'd like him to do* so you can orgasm too?
if he doesn't ask, just tell him that it felt amazing but you didn't come and...(see above).
another option is to orgasm first. if i'm feeling particular horny and know that i have to orgasm to feel satisfied, i have my partner get me off before we even start having sex. it makes it that much easier to climax again and in the event he goes quick, i don't feel disappointed.
also, do you use condoms? that tends to help dull the sensations so he won't go as quick. i don't recommend trying any of the stay hard sprays though--they may numb him, but if he's not using a condom they'll numb you as well.
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