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Originally Posted by uptown
I am attempting to address problems but even talking about sex is difficult around here, trying to talk about these sorts of problems without it erupting into an argument is even more difficult. I have nobody that I'm comfortable discussing this sort of thing with in real life either so I'm kind of floundering.
It's a weird thing.. if we try to talk about it, the problem just gets bigger and it makes it even more difficult to be sexual.. it increases performance anxiety or something.
Btw, your hostile tone was not appreciated, I see many of the same types of questions repeatedly posted here, if I don't have any sort of helpful imput or if the question bores me, I just skip over the thread. I'd suggest you do the same thing here please, I've got enough problems without the addition of your irritation to them.
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The hostile tone is your reading into the post--none was meant. I suggest you go back to the threads where you brought up the same general, underlying issue of self-image and relationship problems and heed some of that advice. The TFP is a wonderful source for help (I know I've learned quite a bit), but at a certain point one must look for other avenues of help instead of presenting the same problem in a different form.