I may not be a girl, but I know quite a bit on the subject because I was sexually abused by a friends big brother multiple times when i was younger, and I have had similar problems with relationships. It's just so hard not to think about it in relationships and its so hard to keep it from being a factor. It made me very insecure with my sexuality(im sure this is not the case with your GF, but I think its better if I explain every aspect of it). You should talk to your GF about your relationship without centering on her past. Tell her how much she means to you and try and make that evident, and hope to hell it works out, thats all the advice I can give you.
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