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Why not be honest and tell him that you are having your own issues. Admit that they are not his issues, that they are your own. And then request the opportunity to meet his new friend. Maybe have her and her date over for dinner, double date, or meet the two of them for lunch. Let her see you are real, that you love your husband, and put your mind to rest. After all, it is just fine to look -- just not to buy. From the sounds of it, he isn't buying.
(Also, if your marriage is in a rut, maybe it is time to "sex" it up. Have fun, go wild, do something new and fun. Seduce him -- just because you love him! But don't do it because you're jealous, it takes the fun out of it and keeps your mind away from the joy of being together.)
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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