My ex couldn't do that position either. Sad to say, he was just too small. (Too bad, as I LOVE it!)
With Lebell I find leaning forward onto my elbows helps.
And maybe try some others: you on top, put your legs around his neck in missionary, lean over the bed with your feet on the floor and him behind you, etc. Have fun, be creative, and experiment. Frankly, there are some positions that just don't work with certain partners so laugh and change, it isn't worth getting hung up over. Good luck!
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