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Originally Posted by icksters
My SO and I have spoken about this before, and in my opinion, this is not my cup of tea nor is it his, he made that clear. I just feel that I would be too dominating, I like to take charge sometimes, but to me this makes him seem so submissive, I couldn't see him being that submissive compared to me. Also if you put the shoe on the other foot, I wouldn't want him in that area and he has told me that he does not get enjoyment out of playing in that territory. Just my .02
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(of course I HAVE to say the following...)
whats wrong with having dominant/submissive sex? Its not like its something you do ALL the time...even being in the lifestyle Dave and I do have "vanilla" sex. Some(not all) of the most arousing/amazing sex we've ever had was where I was dominating him.....it adds an element to it that just cant be explained sometimes. What you do in the bedroom doesnt have to reflect everyday life...