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My wife and I saw the same episode, and she said he was going to be busted for that. It actually seemed strange to us that she would bust him for that since their sex life was so obviously happy and healthy. My wife and I have been together for 13 years now. What we find now is that when we our having lots of sex, our libidos shoot up immensely, and it is so easy to find other people attractive (and consequently have a crush on them). It just benefits both of us as we both use it to fuel our sexual energy for each other. When you have two kids and both are working, it is sometimes hard to have the time to generate sexual energy at home. There is absolutely nothing wrong with using the energy generated by a sexual hunger for others towards your relationship.
Sex is both a gift and a curse. It is a tremendous gift if used properly and put in its place (a very nice side benefit to a great relationship) and a curse if you use it as a power thing in the relationship. We know many couples that go through this as well. Most of the time they just aren't communicating.
As with everything else, if you don't talk about it, you will never completely understand what the other person is thinking.
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