My SO and I have spoken about this before, and in my opinion, this is not my cup of tea nor is it his, he made that clear. I just feel that I would be too dominating, I like to take charge sometimes, but to me this makes him seem so submissive, I couldn't see him being that submissive compared to me. Also if you put the shoe on the other foot, I wouldn't want him in that area and he has told me that he does not get enjoyment out of playing in that territory. Just my .02
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