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Originally Posted by lurkette
ratbastid and I generally know who each other's crushes are, and we have no problem taking out our sexual frustrations on each other 
I can't remember what tv show I heard this on, but someone once said "no harm in building up an appetite somewhere else as long as you eat at home."  |
ditto for hubby and I on what lurkette said. it's normal to get crushes on other inviduals . . . And as long as that sexual turn on is being reaped by your SO, then where is the harm? It doesn't mean you don;t love your SO or are attracted to them any less . . . it just means you saw someone cute who excited you . . . we're human, and in general, people need to cut themselves some slack and stop being so hard on themselves . . .