Are you taking any medications? I am currently Lexapro (
Escitalopram) among other things. Lexapro as well as other SSRIs (Zoloft, Prozac, Paxil, Luvox, Celexa) have a lot of sexual side effects. I have a problem with ejaculation. It takes FOREVER. The only way I can come is when I do it myself. My GF starts me with a BJ and then I have to finish it myself. I almost get lightheaded because I work so hard at it. I know its not her because I came almost right away before I started taking the Lexapro. Sex doesnt do anthing either. I am on edge almost all the time and it feels great, but I can last longer than Ron Jeremy. Usually I need to finish myself manually after sex.
I also agree that hands should be used during a BJ...