*Nikki*

I would like to know if I am being overly sensitive or if anyone else agrees with my take on this situation.

I am having a bridal shower in March. My fiance's sister lives about ten hours away from where I do. I told her a couple weeks ago that I was having the shower in March and I would really like her to come. After all she is soon going to be my sister-in-law. She told me that she could come about any weekend in March and that sounded good to her.

Well I am now told that instead of coming to my shower she is going to visit her brother (my fiance) for four days that weekend of the shower. She has said that she wants to spend some time with him as a "Bachelor" before he and I are married.

I am very upset with this. Basically she is flying all the way to South Carolina and staying with him (he lives 3 hours from me) and completely skipping the shower. Not only that but I was one of two people who threw HER BRIDAL SHOWER a few months ago.

So now I am really hurt and mad and I don't know how to address this issue and need some suggestions.