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Originally Posted by maleficent
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Alone time -- find a place big enough that you can each find your corner to retreat to so that when his breathing just bugs you you can go somewhere and not be near him, and both sides should respect that alone time
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Oh god yes. I remember when I was living with my SO, before we were married, and I so didn't understand the whole alone time thing. So, he'd wake up in the morning and spend an hour in the bathroom with door locked just so he could breathe.
1)Respect the alone time
2)If you can't cook, don't. If you don't cook, do the dishes.
3)Don't fight about money, sex, or when your feeling are hurt.
Mistakes will be made with money, your libidos won't always match perfectly, and both of you will lash out at one another without really meaning it.
Ok, so you'll fight, you can't help it, but you shouldn't. Take steps to pervent those things before they get bad enough to fight about. COMMUNICATION!!