Koochy

Just recently, I lost my virginity to my g/f. She wasn't one before hand, so she is the more experienced one in the relationship. Anyways, after the short period of time I spent in her, I was gone. This didn't really matter to me (I had had trouble coming when it came to oral, so I was just happy I was able to come at all by other than my own hands). What did make me wonder, was.. when does sex actually end? After I had finished I was wondering if I stay in her? She obviously didn't climax within 20 seconds like me, so do I continue pumping?

I had no feeling of a refractory period, so I continued for a bit wondering if I'm doing the right thing. I eventually pulled out, as I was scared continuing after coming was the wrong thing to do (she's on the pill, so no protection).

So my question is, how long am I supposed to continue sex? Does it matter if I've just climaxed and gone slightly limp? Does this affect her (as in gives her any feeling in there or am I just wasting my time until I'm hard again). I was thinking about trying an MMO (I've gotten them a few times from self practice) but it was my first time! I just wanted to get off, heh :D.

Thanks in advance for the help!

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