I have had flings that didn't work out well and were uncomfortable afterwards, but I have also had flings that were great one time deals that led to good friendships and flings that have turned into long term relationships with wonderful people...
I tend to be attracted to individuals who don't hang an "albatross" around the neck of sex in a relationship, and make it the be-all end-all. Relaxed, uninhibited people are attractive to me and I would have missed out on some great people in my life if I had decided to judge them based on a strong mutual attraction that found us having breakfast the next day! What is so scary about sex??
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Oft expectation fails...
and most oft there Where most it promises
- Shakespeare, W.
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