Be aware of the surroundings if you are approaching somebody this way for the first few times. For example, if the two of you are with a group of friends having casual conversation expect that she will be much more self conscious of you trying to appear too familiar in front of her friends, and it will shut her down quickly. The "stick and move" keeps it comfortable for both people - touch her briefly to emphasize a point or while laughing, then back away and respect how she responds. Oh, and smile.
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Oft expectation fails...
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