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jaypc2, to answer your question, from my point of view at least, sex is fun regardless. I've been in love and the sex in that relationship was better, but it's rarely bad either way. In most circumstances, the women (flings) aren't anyone I would want a committed relationship with, for whatever reason (or vice versa), but they could still be killer in bed. I dont see a point in depriving myself of anything because I'm not in love with that person.
A little over a year ago work sent me out of town for over a month solid. There was a girl who worked where I was sent that was pretty attractive, and evidently she found me the same. We both talked about it from the beginning and knew that if we did anything, it'd be nothing more than sex. Now why the hell would I pass up on that? We were safe, honest, and had fun. Nobody was hurt emotionally, and now if I go there for any reason, I have someone to call and hang out with, even if nothing else happens.
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