For the most part, I've experienced good things from flings, but I'm always up front and honest about it. "No, I dont want a relationship, this is purely for sex." If the other person is OK with that, and/or looking for the same thing, with absolutely no strings attached, they can be quite fun! It's when emotions start getting involved with one person and not the other that it can go badly.
Just to clarify, I'm talking more about "fuck buddies" than one night stands.
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