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It does depend on what you want.
If you just want to hookup with lots of women for random sex. You should try to follow advice and pretend to be things your not. Read those guides that tell you to be an asshole etc.
If you want real relationships though, you just need to be yourself, with only a little added fluff. Take some time, and write some essays about yourself. That sounds silly I know, but hear me out.
Dating is like a interview, the questions are "do I want to spend more time with this person." You will have lots of things to talk about. If you respond to a question about your goals and say "I dunno.." its a real downer.
So now that you know about yourself and can tell her, you also need to ask her questions about her life. Don't make it like a game show, but your going to want to know about her as well. Don't get desprate and stick to women who aren't good for you, just because they are girls.
As far as dates? Live band bar, I love these kind of places. Make sure the music will not be too loud though.
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