In instances like these there’s always a crowd of people that tell you to “move on”. I’m sure the intensions are good, but some of us, though not the majority, are not wired that way, and I’m betting good money on the fact that onetime2 is such a person - my point being that, for him, moving on is probably not an option. Having said that, my take on your whole little recording scheme is that it was daft to say the least, but again I understand it, because that’s something I’d probably have done in your situation. Being in the comfortable position of a spectator, I can only suggest to go for honesty, have a chat with her, and ask. Sure, not easy, but it’s certainly the last thing you can do in order to save your ass from getting a restraining order, and not seeing her ever again. And that would probably be the worst thing for you, eh?
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