Originally Posted by Acetylene

Yeah she is flirting furiously with a married man, WHILE ENGAGED HERSELF. Doesn't matter if she's actually slept with him; her behavior is still unacceptable. You don't need this spineless twerp.

Plus this girl is looking for an easier way to get out than just dumping you. She doesn't want you anymore, and that's cold fact.

However, you did read your fiancee's SMS, and noticed when she changed her password. Why did you have her password in the first place? Obviously you were checking her email on a regular basis or you wouldn't even have known. After that, I'm not surprised you bugged her apartment. Frankly, she doesn't need you either, at least not till you've grown up a bit.

Sounds like neither one of you was ready for this relationship.