Semi-new relationship advice please?
Hi all,
I've been seeing my girlfriend for three months and have totally fallen for her (and same for her she tells me)
Neither of us have been in a relationship this long before and are basically doing everything for the first time.
Heres the problem i regularly finger her to orgasm and she tosses me off but all this time she has not made me come once. Tonight we had our first proper conversation about it and she said she feels useless and wants to show how much she loves me but feels bad because she can't. I told her me loving her has nothing to do with that and we'll work at it. Thing is im not sure how. I told her i didnt know how to make it better unless we tried something completely different like giving me head but she does not want to yet. So im a bit lost really. Obviosuly it would be nice if she could return the favour but i am more worried about her feeling inadequate than that. One thing she hates is not being able to do something.
Any advice you guys could give would be very much appreciated.
Were both 17 btw.
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