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Hi all,

I've been seeing my girlfriend for three months and have totally fallen for her (and same for her she tells me)
Neither of us have been in a relationship this long before and are basically doing everything for the first time.

Heres the problem i regularly finger her to orgasm and she tosses me off but all this time she has not made me come once. Tonight we had our first proper conversation about it and she said she feels useless and wants to show how much she loves me but feels bad because she can't. I told her me loving her has nothing to do with that and we'll work at it. Thing is im not sure how. I told her i didnt know how to make it better unless we tried something completely different like giving me head but she does not want to yet. So im a bit lost really. Obviosuly it would be nice if she could return the favour but i am more worried about her feeling inadequate than that. One thing she hates is not being able to do something.

Any advice you guys could give would be very much appreciated.

Were both 17 btw.

ibis

nice

For anyone else with this problem, don't worry about it.

When I first started having sex (intercourse) I couldn't come for months. After being with only your hand for so long you get accustomed to yourself. Once you're comfortable with your partner, it'll come (pardon the pun).

BTW, I liked the "tossed me" bit... I don't think I've ever heard that.

john_713

Yea unfortunatley he's now got banned for being under 18.:rolleyes Can back him up on the tossing off remark tho, read another thread from him seems he's a Brit like me. Quite a common way of saying it over here :

Zegel

Edit: Damn, I was going to post some advice for the guy, and now I see that he was 17. Doh.