1) She made you leave your own house so she could talk with her "friend" = Red Flag
2) She hung out with him before, during, and after work = Red Flag
3) She started acting distant the exact same time her friend came into play = Red Flag
Those are three reasons alone without any snooping to be suspicious. Right there you should have confronted her.
4) You find "I want you" 's in the IMs = REALLY BIG Red Flag
5) You find "I love you" 's in the IMs = She's beating you with the Red Flags
6) She claimed not to see him that day, when you saw him leaving the apartment. = Still beating you..
I'm all about trust, I've never had a problem with it or expecting it. But she was two timing you, and I'd bet dollars to dimes she was sleeping with him.
Just be glad she didnt take your money, forget her two-timing ass, move on, find a nice girl.
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