I did the exact thing a year or so ago. I found her email address thru an online alumni thing and emailed her to see what was going on. Come to find out she still lived in the area, so we got together one day and had coffee and just caught up on things. That was the last time I heard from her. I'd sent her an email a couple days after seeing if maybe she wanted to hang out again, and they all fell on dead ears I guess.
I was kinda bummed for a while, thinking that I'd done something wrong or whatever, but it passed. Just kinda weird I guess...
I say go for it. If you guys were just friends then why not talk and mend fences and catch up on old times?? It couldn't hurt and the most that she could say is "NO".. And since you've not seen her in years, it's not like you are out anything if she turns the invite down. At least you could say that you tried.
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