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Sorry about your tough times... Two things did come to mind for me as I read this.
The best definition of cheating I ever saw (and I think it was here) was not about acts, it was about trust. Cheating is doing something your partner would be upset to find out about... Secondly, I would think that you would want to marry a girl who causes you to act in ways that are higher than your normal self, not lower. What with the snooping and recording, it doesn't sound like you'd say this relationship is helping you be the best person you can. Of course, it is always easier for an outsider to weigh in on your problems... Best wishes in finding a good path through this.
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Cogito ergo spud -- I think, therefore I yam
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