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txd · 01-01-2005, 10:45 AM

Hi all, sorry if this is not the right forum, just felt it was the one that fitted the best.

I'm really confused at the moment and don't know what to do. Recently I've been having these recurring dreams of a girl that I was very good friends with in school and havn't seen in close to ten years now. We were really good friends and did everything together and I counted her as a good friend. unfortunately at the end of school we had a small fall out and due to stubbornness on both our parts we sort of drifted apart.

The problem I've been having is that for days after these dreams I feel so lost, I am unable to sleep thinking about her and it is totally destroying me and I don't know why.

I have considered trying to contact her but not being that outgoing I would not know where to start. Also I have a girlfriend of 5 years and know that it would seem very odd to her if I was to start seeking out this girl from my past.

Our friendship was just that and was never sexual although if I was to be perfectly honest there was the odd bit of flirting back and forth.

Can anyone give me some input as to what I should do. Has anyone been in a similar situation?

01-01-2005, 10:45 AM	#1 (permalink)
txd Addict	A girl from my past Hi all, sorry if this is not the right forum, just felt it was the one that fitted the best. I'm really confused at the moment and don't know what to do. Recently I've been having these recurring dreams of a girl that I was very good friends with in school and havn't seen in close to ten years now. We were really good friends and did everything together and I counted her as a good friend. unfortunately at the end of school we had a small fall out and due to stubbornness on both our parts we sort of drifted apart. The problem I've been having is that for days after these dreams I feel so lost, I am unable to sleep thinking about her and it is totally destroying me and I don't know why. I have considered trying to contact her but not being that outgoing I would not know where to start. Also I have a girlfriend of 5 years and know that it would seem very odd to her if I was to start seeking out this girl from my past. Our friendship was just that and was never sexual although if I was to be perfectly honest there was the odd bit of flirting back and forth. Can anyone give me some input as to what I should do. Has anyone been in a similar situation?