Is she used to having good guy friends like that? Or was this something fairly new?
i wouldnt feel so bad about the tape recorder. I would've done the same thing.
Yes it makes you look like you dont trust her, but you're about to marry this girl and plan a good portion of your future with her, isnt it normal that you were super concerned about what she was doing with this guy behind your back?
And chances are, even if she wasnt sleeping with him yet, she would be soon enough.
If youre strong enough, dump her and dont look back.
edit: and another thing, the fact that she was so careless about the whole thing should tell you something too.
Last edited by kolila; 12-31-2004 at 01:42 PM..
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