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Originally Posted by machoosh
She used to let touch and play with her vagina a longtime (13 yrs) ago, but now she clams up and says please NO and says shes not sure why. I wanna do oral on her also but she just won't let me go down there. She gives me oral and i wanna return the pleasure of it all. Am i alone with this ? Need some advice... thx . 
ps : she really loves me and thats not the problem....she says it 5 days a week or more. |
Okay . . . she might be insecure about her body . . . woman who are insecure about their body image often don't want their SO to go down on them.
I have been married for 3 years, and i just plain appreciate it when my hubby just approches me and asks me openly about things . . . marriage isn't about guesswork . . . Would she be open to speaking about it with you?? I would just ask her about it, talk to her about it . . . communication often helps in the bedroom, no one can read minds. . .
you can't expect yourself to read her mind . . . I would try to bring it up with her . . .
Also: another approach that might help . . . One night, just make it all about her, give her a massage, touch her and kiss her everywhere first and tell her the whole time how attracted you are to her and how sexy she is and that you want to do nothing more than to make her feel really good and to pleasure her. . . She might just be having a confidence issue and needs to feel that you are just really, really into pleasing her because you are so attracted to her and crazy about her
But seriously, try talking you her about it if you can . . .