[QUOTE=Janey] I think guys grow up almost being expected to masturbate. So they can joke, amongst themselves an in public: the media uses it in movies (Fast Times at Ridgefield High, There's Something about Mary) and in countless stand up routines. It seems tho, that girls have to keep it hidden or private.
Janey, i think you are right on this one . . . in US society, it seems there is a double standard, society tells men: go out, find out what pleases you and do it often, sex doesn't have to have emotions attatched to it . . .
society tells woman: it's wrong to find out what pleases you, sex needs to have emotional connections for woman . . . So i think that woman have alot to go up against to free themselves and to stand up and say that they can find pleasure just as well as any man!
It's cool to be a prude in public and a closet perv. I know several woman who are just like that . . . You don't need to change who you are and it's obvious that you have accepted yourself and that is totally cool. Life is just about being who you really are . . .
As far as cyber being cheating . . . if you are/would feeling guilty about it, then it's not worth the negative vibes . . . Everyone has different boundries. If you think that it's okay to do . . . then do it! And enjoy it!
