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So did you get back together? Sounds to me you are both confused. What you haven't said is exactly why you start arguing. An exampl would be good, that way we could understand the circumstances better and perhaps help you work around that. Sometimes all it takes is a little more patience on both sides. Maybe when you're about to pick on something or start an argument, you should think, I love her more than I want to argue and be right. Merry Christmas, hope everything works out!
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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