| The threads title was a question - is this a question you're asking? It seems to me that you've already answered it, or at least a decent amount of it. You seem to know yourself quite well, and I think that this can't be anything but healthy.
 My friend said to me the other week:
 "So, I suppose by now you've heard that I'm gay." and I said
 "No, I hadn't, but good on you."
 
 I think any step toward identifying yourself is a step in the right direction.
 I am pleased that you've made so much progress.  Indeed, you're probably doing a lot better than most people I know...
 
				__________________ignorance really is bliss.
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