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The best thing you could do is tell her that you know you'll be deployed for awhile, and you would so like to ask her to wait for you, but that would be selfish and not right for her. So you are just going to ask her to not forget you while you're gone, and then when you get back you can start over and see what happens. Meanwhile, you'll e-mail and hope that she'll e-mail back. You wish her well.
See that way you're being unselfish, and trusting and all that, but still telling her how strongly you feel attracted to her and would like to have a relationship with her. She'll feel really good about you if you do this, I don't want to be selfish, thing.
Good luck, mate. Age differences are hard, as are racial, cultural and other differences. When a woman is much older than her guy, she feels she's cradle robbing, and that she could do better, just like a guy feels when he's with a much older woman. Some beautiful people get past that, but not many. So good luck.
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Trueheart
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