The best solution I've found to playing "musical parents" over the holidays is frankly to do whatever the hell I feel like doing, and spending the time with whoever I feel like spending it with. The situation is not your fault, but it does affect you and that sucks. I have played that game for several years now. If you want to go do something with both of them and are able to, I'd suggest visiting one for part of the day, visit the other for the rest of the day, and invite your sister to join you for a nice, drama free dinner.
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