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Originally Posted by KellyC
So I'm facing some issues here: Be with her, and try my damnest not to hurt her, I can't guarantee that it won't happen though. Or I stop it this night, and the curiosity of "what ifs" forever haunts me. And of course, there's also the idea of: if it didn't meant to be, then why force it? Why not end it from the beginning?
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There are no guarantees in love. It's hard enough to keep yourself from getting hurt. Really you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel about her, what you want (which sound like a relationship), and that you want to make this work, but you can't guarantee that it will work or that she won't get hurt. Tell her that while you've had your issues in the past (and will probably have more in the future), the good aspects of the relationship out weight the bad. Then, see what she has to say about it. It's not going to be perfect all the time, but you need to decide what it is that you want and let her decide what it is she wants. If she decides that it's not worth it from her point of view that's fine.