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When in that situation I found the following to be helpful.
Use that as a time to do those things that are intimate but not sexual. Hold hands more, give quick pecks, sneak in a hug every now and then. Do those things that demonstrate affection without having them lead to anything. By the time your guests leave, you'll be in for some crazy sex.
In bed, at night, quiet. The inability to let it out vocally can be a huge stimulant to nighttime sex. Being forced to whisper and to regulate breathing add to a very real sexual sensation.
I spent a few vacations with exes at their parents' houses. As a married couple, the evenings obviously tended to be truly great experiences (given the first paragraph's actions): including more than one event where she had to bury her face in a pillow repeatedly, screaming into it etc. etc.
When it was with non-spouses we simply enjoyed each other's company as best we could and made the most of any privacy we could find (kitchen pantry was quite memorable).
Other than those two bits of advice I haven't any other suggestions. Weathering the storm, obviously, leads to some really lovely rewards.
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