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Seaver · 12-14-2004, 02:28 PM

The best analogy I can make for guys on being direct...

Think of fishing.

You have to have your hook and baited, which mean you have to show confidence.
You have to have your hook in the water, which means you actually have to talk to women.
You dont reel it in on the first nibble, which means dont ask "do you like me?" or anything like that. It makes them think you dont have confidence and puts them on the spot.
Wait until a good hard bite to reel in, wait for her to get attached to you.

Look women get hit on EVERY DAY. If you pull too hard too early she'll just ditch you and her and her friends will always refer to you as the weirdo. Just relax, make her laugh, show your confidence, and she'll be yours (if not, tell yourself that to boost your ego).

Being direct is great, when go up to women often I tell them "I'm going to take you to the park this weekend". Simple, I look them in the eyes, with a half smile. It's only not worked once (she had a bf who was in the restroom at the time). You can be direct when saying where you're going to take her, when, or anything like that. But dont put them on the spot of anything "relationship wise" without her being WELL prepared for it. Women will always say no at that instant, so it's a failure if you do. But if you let them think about it for a while, especially on those lonely nights she'll suddenly see more of the good in you.

12-14-2004, 02:28 PM	#20 (permalink)
Seaver Junkie Location: Fort Worth, TX	The best analogy I can make for guys on being direct... Think of fishing. You have to have your hook and baited, which mean you have to show confidence. You have to have your hook in the water, which means you actually have to talk to women. You dont reel it in on the first nibble, which means dont ask "do you like me?" or anything like that. It makes them think you dont have confidence and puts them on the spot. Wait until a good hard bite to reel in, wait for her to get attached to you. Look women get hit on EVERY DAY. If you pull too hard too early she'll just ditch you and her and her friends will always refer to you as the weirdo. Just relax, make her laugh, show your confidence, and she'll be yours (if not, tell yourself that to boost your ego). Being direct is great, when go up to women often I tell them "I'm going to take you to the park this weekend". Simple, I look them in the eyes, with a half smile. It's only not worked once (she had a bf who was in the restroom at the time). You can be direct when saying where you're going to take her, when, or anything like that. But dont put them on the spot of anything "relationship wise" without her being WELL prepared for it. Women will always say no at that instant, so it's a failure if you do. But if you let them think about it for a while, especially on those lonely nights she'll suddenly see more of the good in you. Last edited by Seaver; 12-14-2004 at 02:32 PM..