Lol, I was going to avoid specifics, but here's a really short version of my story:
I had a crush on this girl for like 8 months, and we had a really good flirtatious, easy going, yet
friendly relationship. I ended up taking her to prom. 3 months after prom, after things got akward between us, i asked her what was up. She said she just wanted to be friends, and there she wasn't over her 'ex.' (yea...right..?). I then asked her, if I will ever have a chance, to which she replied that she could only see us as friends.
But lately, after i stopped talking to her (cuz i just couldn't stand being around her anymore, you know the feeling of being really emotional around that certain person), she's been coming around, with shit like, "she misses me," or whatnot.
I was just wondering if i had played it cool, like acted like it was no big deal and remained a close person to her, we'd eventually have something. Or maybe she just realized that nobody has as good of a package as me
.
As for being direct or just playing the game, i guess one would have to vibe it out on which route to take. It seems like the stories are pretty inconsistent. I mean, everybody's different, so there's no one standard formula to use eh?