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My wife and I have shared our fantasies in this area, but have never acted on it. We do however enjoy role playing where I become the male of her choice, usually a friend of ours. Her favorite is an old boyfriend who was a very sexual person. We still socialize with them on occasion, as he was a friend of mine as well. She's never indicated a need to actually be with him again, but definately has a need to fantasize about him and have me provide a role playing partner for her. The first time, she hesitated to ask me to say and do certain things. Once we had complete understanding, it's a very arousing thing without actually having to deal with the guy for real. It may not satisfy others, but it's worked well for us and kept us out of bad situations. I think you need to spend more time getting to understand your girls actual feelings, beyond obviously what you've already discussed which seemingly wasn't enough. Good luck my friend.
Regards
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