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My own exp. - for what it is worth. There is a big difference between asking your partner what they will allow vs. what is a turn on. Talking about each other's fantasies instead of limitations gives a more realistic idea of where the relationship can venture in a comfortable space. Ask her if the sight of you with another is hot, not asking if will she allow it. You may not get to the place you want - but isn't that better than justifying after the fact?
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Oft expectation fails...
and most oft there Where most it promises
- Shakespeare, W.
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