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Originally Posted by ratbastid
Here's how marriage works: if it's her problem, it's your problem. Because you stood in front of an altar or a justice of the peace and said so.
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I can't even pretend that I would have any advice on how to handle the original topic, but that statement is the truest thing that I can imagine. I'd wager that we as a society would have far fewer problem were people to understand what they are doing by exchanging wedding vows.
Edit: And I guess I do understand why she may feel that way. One year for my birthday, my wife got me a stripper. she made all sorts of arrangements to have this happen at a bar where we were celebrating my birthday and once the girl was up there stripping down, my wife said she got to feeling sick at her stomach. so you wife was even moreso likely to get upset. I've not done a group sex activity, but I believe this is the reason so many people recomend to make certain the relationship can stand such a test. Do as others have suggested and communicate with you wife on this and try to understand her POV.