You're the friend in this 'train wreck', right? Be the friend, not the counselor. If 'John' asks you for your opinion, give it. If he needs to just vent(not in a physical way obviously) then listen to him. Otherwise, you're risking an awful lot if you venture in to the middle of a family affair.
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"no amount of force can control a free man, a man whose mind is free. No, not the rack, not fission bombs, not anything. You cannot conquer a free man; the most you can do is kill him."
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