If I understand correctly, you're saying that during the act itself, you asked your wife if you could actually have intercourse with this girl, to which she replied yes. Then, after the fact, she intoned that you should not have.
If htose are the facts, then as was already stated, you both have to sit down and talk about how you feel about what happened. Clearly you both failed to communicate before and/or during this threesome, which is exactly the wrong way to do things.
This kind of thing does not come with instructions, and it's a bit of a minefield, so you have to know going in (no pun intended!), that something like this may happen.
Deal with it using good communciation, and if you both decide to continue with group sex, make sure that you both know each other's wants and needs, and follow them.
Peace,
Pierre
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