I have been with my wife since high school. I am 30 now, so we have been together for almost 12 years. We basicly grew up together, went to the same college, and I don't really know who I am with out her. We have been married for 5 years. I love her and care deeply about her, and we get along great, but I am very restless, and am craving a new relationship. Our sex life is so-so, and I think that is part of the problem. She is the only women I have ever had sex with. We have discussed our sexual issues - I want more, she doesn't - many time, and we have come up with solutions, but then we just slip back into the old routine, and have to go through it all over again.
I am at as much fault in this as she, neither of us are great communicators.
But lately I have been feeling like we have reached a ceiling, and I feel trapped. I haven't discussed this with her, because I am afraid of how she will take it, I think over all she is happy with our life. I have been driving myself nuts with this, I know I should talk to her, but I need some other opions first.
Thanks
