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Originally Posted by anti fishstick
but why would you rather please yourself with anonymous internet people if it's so private? Masturbating is a private act, just like sex, but you share sex... why not share that you masturbate or have thought of it? I know how girls, even in N. America, can be so secretive and shy about masturbation amongst their girl friends. When I finally admitted I did that with my friends (a subject we'd NEVER talk about) it was so liberating. I can only imagine the same thing with a partner.
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That is why i can do it on the internet, it is anonymous, and therefore i can retain privacy. the fact that i get real live interaction helps. I'm sure hubby can do it to a picture no problem. I refer to cybering as interactive masturbation.
I think guys grow up almost being expected to masturbate. So they can joke, amongst themselves an in public: the media uses it in movies (Fast Times at Ridgefield High, There's Something about Mary) and in countless stand up routines.
It seems tho, that girls have to keep it hidden or private.
And finally it comes down to personality. My PDA is quite low. It's afact of life for me as what my own comfort zone is. I dont mind holding hands in public, but kissing, fondling I find to be a turn off. So, I am a public prude, and a closet perv. It aint gonna change...
